Tag Archives: relationships

polyamory, love, and its discontents

I’ve been dating Catch for 3 months now and I’m still enjoying his company. His flaws have begun to show through, and this past Friday, he realized that being polyamorous with me had a different meaning for him, as a … Continue reading

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honest polyamorous reality

The poly adventure I last posted about didn’t happen exactly the way I had planned. The four of us planned this night and prepped for it to be “the night”…but what happened (after all the buffing and shaving and nervous … Continue reading

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sex-positive + polyamorous + new adventure

I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m likely polyamorous and I’ve been spending more time ┬áthinking about sex, watching sex-related documentaries, watching pornography and considering my thoughts and feelings around my own sexuality than I ever have before. The sexual … Continue reading

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…i think i fell in love.

A few weeks ago, I could not have seen this coming. So, my quest to let things be as they are has led me to an interesting impasse. Amid all of my freedom seeking, polyamorous fun times, the person I … Continue reading

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updates in random musings

In the past few months, I’ve cycled through all kinds of emotions and mindsets about people and attraction. I held my tongue when I wanted to say “I’m falling for you” twice now. I’m glad I didn’t say anything because … Continue reading

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the privilege of mutual desire

I can’t seem to find anything online about this, which makes me believe that I’m in a rare situation. I have more opportunities for lovers (in exactly the capacity I want them) than I’m sure what to do with. It’s … Continue reading

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